M'malingaliro achikhalidwe cha anthu: amuna ali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu chogonjetsa akazi.Amuna amakhala okangalika kuposa akazi muubwenzi wawo.Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zosowa zochepa zamalingaliro.Adzakhala otengeka ndi akazi okongola mmodzi ndi mmodzi ndikulota akugonana nawo.Koma kodi amuna otere?
M'mafunso a Bowie Tsang, tinawawona amunawa.Anasiya akazi ndikusankha zidole zachikulire zogonana chifukwa anavulala m'maganizo.
Angakonde kukhala ndi chidole chachikulire chomwe chili chabwino koma chosasunthika, angakonde kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri kuti akweze chidole chawo chachikulire chogonana, angakonde kukhala m'malo awo ongopeka, sangakhalenso pafupi ndi akazi.
Kaŵirikaŵiri, tidzaona ubwino wakuthupi wa mwamuna.Akhoza kukhala ndi mkwiyo woipa umene ukhoza kuvulaza thupi la mkaziyo, koma timayiwala kuti sachitiridwa mwachifundo.Amaopanso kuwukira kwa amayi.
Kupyolera mu "Mawa Asanafike", tikudziwa kuti zidole zachikulire zogonana zikhoza kukwezedwa ndipo zikhoza kukhazikitsidwa kwa anthu omwe mumawakonda, koma kukhala ndi chidole chogonana chomwe mungathe kukhazikitsa umunthu wanu kumatha kukhutiritsa kukhudzika kwamalingaliro aumunthu?
Mwamuna wina: “Ukwati wanga unatha zaka 15, ndipo pomalizira pake unatha.Panthawi imeneyo ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri.Sindinafune kukamba za maubwenzi ndi akazi enieni.Zidole zimenezi zinandipangitsa kukhala womasuka kwambiri ndipo zinandilola kuti ndisamapanikizike ndi amuna ndi akazi.Sindikuyang'ananso kalikonse.
Anthu angaganize kuti chinthu chamtundu uwu ndi chodabwitsa, ndipo ndikumvetsetsa.Koma sadziwa kwenikweni kuti zimakhala bwanji kugwiritsa ntchito zidole zachigololozi.Ndi zidole zogonana, mudzapeza zomwe mukufuna.Izi zidzakupangitsani kukhala ndi chidwi kwambiri.
Ndilibe zongoganizira za zidole za anthu akuluakulu.Ndikafuna kukhala ndi zidole zogonana, ndimangoyika mpando umenewo pakona, kukhala pampando ndikumwa mowa, kuwayang'ana, ndiyeno ndimadziwa kuti ndi iti yomwe imandikopa kwambiri.
Nthawi yotumiza: Nov-30-2023